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Happy Samhain, Friends! There are energies on the move in a big way this year…can you feel it? I am seeing a massive spike in people having ancestor experiences and fielding a LOT of calls about haunted spaces and objects. I am hauling some serious Witch butt trying to deal with them all. I wish I had time to meet in person with everyone in our community who is requesting it right now and give you each a hug. Until I figure out a way to clone myself, I will instead tell you where I will be and what I will be teaching over the next month. Perhaps our paths will cross and we can learn from one another. Keep breathing, stay as balanced as you can, and take care of yourselves and each other out there. Know that you are loved. This is a time of tremendous change and while it may feel chaotic, it also provides unique opportunities should you wish to take them!


Let us celebrate the season in the following ways!


THIS WEEKEND: The Ravenwood Faire! I have a double wide booth and will be doing FREE one-card readings from The Deck of Rebellion! I will be there Friday through Sunday! The Ravenwood Faire has MOVED from last year so make sure you are going to the right place! All of the info is here: https://www.tavabaird.com/event-details/ravenwood-fair-weekend-one


OCTOBER 24th: Frederick, MD at The Simple Life: I am teaching TWO classes in Frederick that day!


SINGING TO THE BONES: AN INTRODUCTION TO BONECASTING


LILITH LEVEL 2: GRIMOIRE OF THE MAGDALENE

Samael lists Mary Magdalene among the great Dae teachers. In this class we explore The Myrrhbearer's legacy and the politics that corrupted it. Mary Magdalene left no known writings. As we honor her wisdom and work in this class, we also ask ourselves: what would a book of her words have looked like? And as we explore our own divinity, what would our own holy book look like?

In answer to these questions, students in this class will upcycle books into personal grimoires that reflect their own holy path. All materials, from glues to ribbons to papers and Lilithian inserts will be provided. Students will leave with a grimoire that can travel with them and expand as they explore their unique spiritual path, no matter what their faith or personal philosophy. Join us for an afternoon of reclamation and celebration in the name of the Magdalene...and in your own name as well!

PLEASE BRING A PAIR OF SCISSORS WITH YOU TO CLASS. Thank you!



OCTOBER 25TH in Clear Brook, VA: LILITH LEVEL ONE: HOUSE OF SPIRITS. This is the second class in the Lilith and The Lost City series and focuses on working with spirits, residual energies, and combating Unethical Daemonic Practitioners. Topics also include using reclaimed dolls to speak with the unembodied and Spirit Dice. A must-have class for those interested in the paranormal and ethical necromancy! And we'll be doing it just before Samhain inside the haunted Blue Ball Inn! Whether you wish to speak with ancestors or are interested in alternate methods of reaching out to the unseen in haunted spaces, The Spirit House has something for you! Registration is here: https://www.tavabaird.com/event-details/lilithian-magick-level-1-the-house-of-spirits


OCTOBER 31 in MARTINSBURG, VA: TENDING THE DEAD WORKSHOP. Spend part of your Samhain tending to our Ancestors at Green Hill Cemetery. Your hosts are Kathy Poston, caretaker of Green Hill Cemetery and Tava Baird, archaeologist and Lilithian Magick instructor. Together they will lead you through proper care and maintenance techniques for a gravesite, as well as speak on the history of this fascinating historical cemetery and the role of the cemetery in magick. Your ticket price goes directly to the cemetery to help with maintenance costs.

Please bring an outdoor chair, clothing for the weather, and clippers for cutting foliage if you have them. Registration is just $10, which goes to the upkeep of the cemetery. Info here: https://www.tavabaird.com/event-details/tending-the-dead-how-to-care-for-a-grave


AND THEN…THE BIG EVENT!



OCTOBER 31…VEILWALKING AT GREEN HILL CEMETERY on HALLOWEEN NIGHT! Join us for traditional Samhain activities, ritual, and community. We’ll be creating two powerful magickal objects that night: a spell jar for calling in Guides and Ancestors for your daily practice, and a talisman to draw the attention of guides. We’ll also have cake and cider, make offerings of our energy to the Ancestors, and romp around in the cemetery under the moon. Come for an unforgettable Samhain and an energetic start to your next year! Please bring a chair and a flashlight! Tickets are here: https://www.tavabaird.com/event-details/veilwalking-a-sacred-samhain-with-lilith-and-the-angel-of-death


Moving on to November…

NOVEMBER 8: I will be in Earlysville, VA at Deathfest playing a corpse in Jennifer Jurlando’s Pagan Mock Funeral workshop! Curious about Deathfest? Info is here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/death-fest-2026-gather-grieve-grow-registration-1998601067594


NOVEMBER 12-15: I will be co-teaching the Angel Path at the Mystic Fire Retreat! Curious about Mystic Fire? Information is here: https://www.mysticfire.org/

And then…my final event of the year before I disappear to have surgery…

NOVEMBER 20 in FREDERICK, MD: LILITH LEVEL ONE: Your Lilithian journey starts here! This is the first class in the Lilith and The Lost City series, and covers Lilithian philosophy. We'll also be doing The Four Mirrors ritual with a Lost City poppet to receive a personalized communication from Samael. The Philosophy part of the class will run 11-1 and then there will be time for you to go and get lunch if you wish to walk The Four Mirrors Ritual in a timeslot between 1:30 and 3:30. Registration and information is here: https://www.tavabaird.com/event-details/liliithian-magick-level-one-the-four-mirrors


Many blessings on you all, friends!!












 
 
 

Happy Spooky Season, Friends!! What are you doing on Halloween?


There are TONS of events coming up that you might enjoy…classes, gatherings, markets, and more! We’d love it if you came by and visited! Here’s what’s on offer:


MARKETS


THIS WEEKEND: The Harper’s Ferry Highland Games

Have you got a hankerin’ for kilted sports? Come to this fabulous Highland Games with food, vendors, competition, and all things Scottish! Darkflower will have a double-wide booth there and I will be doing FREE Lilith readings for you! More info here: https://www.tavabaird.com/event-details/harpers-ferry-highland-games-1


NEXT WEEKEND on OCTOBER 10 in FRONT ROYAL: THE FESTIVAL OF LEAVES in front Royal, VA

200 vendors on Saturday! Music! Food! Will I be doing free readings for you? You bet! Will the Haunted Dolls be there? You bet! Info here: https://www.tavabaird.com/event-details/festival-of-leaves


And then….RAVENWOOD FAIRE OCTOBER 16-18 at its new location! I will be there the first full weekend. Come to the best little Renn Faire EVAH and hang out with us! Look for the dark witchy tent…that’s me…and enjoy readings, haunted dolls, artwork, books, stickers, dowsing rods, ritual oils, and more from Darkflower! Plus music, food, mead, and costumes galore!!! Info here: https://www.tavabaird.com/event-details/ravenwood-fair-weekend-one


AND THEN…markets are done for me for the year as I am going in for surgery on December 3rd and will disappear while my knee replacement heals until March. But before I go….CLASSES and VEILWALKING! 


CLASSES and GATHERINGS:


SINGING TO THE BONES Bonecasting Class on October 24 at The Simple Life in Frederick, MD! Come and learn bone-casting with us! All the details and tickets are here: https://www.tavabaird.com/event-details/singing-to-the-bones-an-introduction-to-casting-bones-stones-shells-and-charms-9


LILITHIAN MAGICK LEVEL 2: Grimoire of the Magdalene on October 24 at The Simple Life in Frederick, MD. Samael lists Mary Magdalene among the great Dae teachers. In this class we explore The Myrrhbearer's legacy and the politics that corrupted it. Mary Magdalene left no known writings. As we honor her wisdom and work in this class, we also ask ourselves: what would a book of her words have looked like? And as we explore our own divinity, what would our own holy book look like?


In answer to these questions, students in this class will upcycle books into personal grimoires that reflect their own holy path. All materials, from glues to ribbons to papers and Lilithian inserts will be provided. Students will leave with a grimoire that can travel with them and expand as they explore their unique spiritual path, no matter what their faith or personal philosophy. Join us for an afternoon of reclamation and celebration in the name of the Magdalene...and in your own name as well! PLEASE BRING A PAIR OF SCISSORS WITH YOU TO CLASS. Thank you! Tickets are here: https://www.tavabaird.com/event-details/lilithian-magick-level-2-the-grimoire-of-the-magdalene


LILITHIAN MAGICK LEVEL 1: The House of Spirits on October 25th in Clear Brook, VA : This is the second class in the Lilith and The Lost City series and focuses on working with spirits, residual energies, and combating Unethical Daemonic Practitioners. Topics also include using reclaimed dolls to speak with the unembodied and Spirit Dice. A must-have class for those interested in the paranormal and ethical necromancy! And we'll be doing it just before Samhain inside the haunted Inn! Whether you wish to speak with ancestors or are interested in alternate methods of reaching out to the unseen in haunted spaces, The Spirit House has something for you! Grab your space here: https://www.tavabaird.com/event-details/lilithian-magick-level-1-the-house-of-spirits


AND THEN…THE BIG ONE:



VEILWALKING on HALLOWEEN NIGHT at Green Hill Cemetery in Martinsburg, West VA

IT'S BACK! Gather around the fireplace inside the mausoleum at Green Hill Cemetery once again for an unforgettable Halloween night with Lilith and Samael! Class will be led by veteran Witchcraft mentor Tava Baird, who will guide you through a variety of experiences to help you celebrate and connect with your ancestors. Join us for an evening of meditation, conversation, divination, and ancestor work before heading out to speak with the Dead in the Victorian cemetery under the moon! Space is limited and your class fee covers all materials and a donation to Green Hill Cemetery. We have an interesting twist this year…we’ll be inviting Lilith’s energy to our gathering! Tickets go QUICK so grab your here: https://www.tavabaird.com/event-details/veilwalking-a-sacred-samhain-with-lilith-and-the-angel-of-death


I’ll be gone teaching The Angel Path at Mystic Fire in mid-November, but then am squeezing in ONE more Lilith class before I go under the knife:


LILIITHIAN MAGICK LEVEL ONE: The Four Mirrors on November 21st at the Simple Life in Frederick, MD

Your Lilithian journey starts here! This is the first class in the Lilith and The Lost City series, and covers Lilithian philosophy. We'll also be doing The Four Mirrors ritual with a Lost City poppet to receive a personalized communication from Samael. The Philosophy part of the class will run 11-1 and then there will be time for you to go and get lunch if you wish to walk The Four Mirrors Ritual in a timeslot between 1:30 and 3:30. Tickets and info are here: https://www.tavabaird.com/event-details/liliithian-magick-level-one-the-four-mirrors


We've been having a blast at our events so far this season...thank you to everyone who came to visit, volunteer, and connect!!!









There are TONS of events coming up that you might enjoy…classes, gatherings, markets, and more! We’d love it if you came by and visited! Here’s what’s on offer:


MARKETS


THIS WEEKEND: The Harper’s Ferry Highland Games

Have you got a hankerin’ for kilted sports? Come to this fabulous Highland Games with food, vendors, competition, and all things Scottish! Darkflower will have a double-wide booth there and I will be doing FREE Lilith readings for you! More info here: https://www.tavabaird.com/event-details/harpers-ferry-highland-games-1


NEXT WEEKEND on OCTOBER 10 in FRONT ROYAL: THE FESTIVAL OF LEAVES in front Royal, VA

200 vendors on Saturday! Music! Food! Will I be doing free readings for you? You bet! Will the Haunted Dolls be there? You bet! Info here: https://www.tavabaird.com/event-details/festival-of-leaves


And then….RAVENWOOD FAIRE OCTOBER 16-18 at its new location! I will be there the first full weekend. Come to the best little Renn Faire EVAH and hang out with us! Look for the dark witchy tent…that’s me…and enjoy readings, haunted dolls, artwork, books, stickers, dowsing rods, ritual oils, and more from Darkflower! Plus music, food, mead, and costumes galore!!! Info here: https://www.tavabaird.com/event-details/ravenwood-fair-weekend-one


AND THEN…markets are done for me for the year as I am going in for surgery on December 3rd and will disappear while my knee replacement heals until March. But before I go….CLASSES and VEILWALKING! 


CLASSES and GATHERINGS:


SINGING TO THE BONES Bonecasting Class on October 24 at The Simple Life in Frederick, MD! Come and learn bone-casting with us! All the details and tickets are here: https://www.tavabaird.com/event-details/singing-to-the-bones-an-introduction-to-casting-bones-stones-shells-and-charms-9


LILITHIAN MAGICK LEVEL 2: Grimoire of the Magdalene on October 24 at The Simple Life in Frederick, MD. Samael lists Mary Magdalene among the great Dae teachers. In this class we explore The Myrrhbearer's legacy and the politics that corrupted it. Mary Magdalene left no known writings. As we honor her wisdom and work in this class, we also ask ourselves: what would a book of her words have looked like? And as we explore our own divinity, what would our own holy book look like?


In answer to these questions, students in this class will upcycle books into personal grimoires that reflect their own holy path. All materials, from glues to ribbons to papers and Lilithian inserts will be provided. Students will leave with a grimoire that can travel with them and expand as they explore their unique spiritual path, no matter what their faith or personal philosophy. Join us for an afternoon of reclamation and celebration in the name of the Magdalene...and in your own name as well! PLEASE BRING A PAIR OF SCISSORS WITH YOU TO CLASS. Thank you! Tickets are here: https://www.tavabaird.com/event-details/lilithian-magick-level-2-the-grimoire-of-the-magdalene


LILITHIAN MAGICK LEVEL 1: The House of Spirits on October 25th in Clear Brook, VA : This is the second class in the Lilith and The Lost City series and focuses on working with spirits, residual energies, and combating Unethical Daemonic Practitioners. Topics also include using reclaimed dolls to speak with the unembodied and Spirit Dice. A must-have class for those interested in the paranormal and ethical necromancy! And we'll be doing it just before Samhain inside the haunted Inn! Whether you wish to speak with ancestors or are interested in alternate methods of reaching out to the unseen in haunted spaces, The Spirit House has something for you! Grab your space here: https://www.tavabaird.com/event-details/lilithian-magick-level-1-the-house-of-spirits


AND THEN…THE BIG ONE:


VEILWALKING on HALLOWEEN NIGHT at Green Hill Cemetery in Martinsburg, West VA

IT'S BACK! Gather around the fireplace inside the mausoleum at Green Hill Cemetery once again for an unforgettable Halloween night with Lilith and Samael! Class will be led by veteran Witchcraft mentor Tava Baird, who will guide you through a variety of experiences to help you celebrate and connect with your ancestors. Join us for an evening of meditation, conversation, divination, and ancestor work before heading out to speak with the Dead in the Victorian cemetery under the moon! Space is limited and your class fee covers all materials and a donation to Green Hill Cemetery. We have an interesting twist this year…we’ll be inviting Lilith’s energy to our gathering! Tickets go QUICK so grab your here: https://www.tavabaird.com/event-details/veilwalking-a-sacred-samhain-with-lilith-and-the-angel-of-death


I’ll be gone teaching The Angel Path at Mystic Fire in mid-November, but then am squeezing in ONE more Lilith class before I go under the knife:


LILIITHIAN MAGICK LEVEL ONE: The Four Mirrors on November 21st at the Simple Life in Frederick, MD

Your Lilithian journey starts here! This is the first class in the Lilith and The Lost City series, and covers Lilithian philosophy. We'll also be doing The Four Mirrors ritual with a Lost City poppet to receive a personalized communication from Samael. The Philosophy part of the class will run 11-1 and then there will be time for you to go and get lunch if you wish to walk The Four Mirrors Ritual in a timeslot between 1:30 and 3:30. Tickets and info are here: https://www.tavabaird.com/event-details/liliithian-magick-level-one-the-four-mirrors





 
 
 

Need a little poetry and magick in your day? I have good news......


IT'S HERE!!!!!! The new poetry collection by Jennifer Jurlando (with illustrations from your truly), is now available to order through my etsy shop! I have a limited amount of signed copies AND prints from the book! Go under the No Mistakes Were Made Tab on my etsy shop at https://darkflowerbooks.etsy.com to see books and prints.


I AM SO FREAKING HONORED TO BE A PART OF THIS PROJECT!


Change the magick of your day with this beautiful new signed copy of No Mistakes Were Made by Jennifer Jurlando. No Mistakes Were Made is a book of poetry rich in love, loss, and spiritual evolution. The author writes about finding her worth, building legacy around her losses, and living a life steeped in spirit and community. Each poem and meditation celebrates self-knowing, abundance, connection with ancestors and guides, and love. Her work at the end of life, as a doula, a Reiki provider, and a grief group facilitator, sits in perfect balance with sensuality, humor and joy. More of her writing can be found on Patreon.

The poems are accompanied by original watercolor illustrations by Pagan artist Tava Baird. Prints from the book are available in other listings.

No Mistakes Were Made is a 8.5" by 5.75" paperback book that is 103 pages in length.

From the back cover:


May you know that

on the day of your soul-fasting,

when mind, heart, and spirit

were yoked to this corporeal form

by breath and by the hopes of your ancestors,

no mistakes were made.


"Jennifer Jurlando is a Virginia writer whose work moves between fierce clarity and quiet reverence. Whether she's unpacking generational wounds, reclaiming feminine power, or blessing the body she lives in, Jurlando writes with urgency and grace. Her poems arrive like confessions, rituals, and rallying cries all at once.

-RVA Mag


Jennifer Jurlando is a Richmond, Virginia-based writer and death worker. She is the co-founder of the Chesterfield Poetry Collective and the RVA Death Collaborative. Her writing on loss, survival, and worth has been published online at RVA Magazine and in anthologies Nine Lives: A Life in Ten Minutes Anthology and Unspoken: Writers on Infertility, Miscarriage, and Stillbirth. More of her writing is available on Patreon. Jennifer can be found throughout the state at open mics, death cafes, and mock home funerals. No Mistakes Were made is her first book of poetry.


If you love poetry or know someone who does...treat yourself. And let your heart out to sing in the pages of this book...



Hope you all are well! More new stuff, markets, classes and gatherings are in the hopper!! :) Have an awesome day!

 
 
 
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